Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Waiting Children

Waiting for our adoption to be completed was really hard for me. It felt like everything took so long. In the end, yes!, it was well worth it. However, we started the process when we were ready and only had to wait a couple of years. One of those years was us gathering together paperwork. I often look at the waiting children page just to see who they post. I can't imagine what THEY feel like- waiting and waiting for a family. I can't imagine knowing that there is a chance it could never happen for them and the pain of their wait! I love seeing them get matched to families and then be adopted. Last year one of the girls (in particular) from Ethiopia's waiting list got adopted. I was so excited to see her picture post to a families blog. I had seen several of the pictures go away so I knew those kids had been adopted but hers stayed up for a while. I thought was really neat that she was adopted. It was even better to see her her picture go away and then see her with her new family. She had always stood out, for some reason to me, on that list and I hoped and prayed she would get adopted (I pray that they all get adopted). This year I ran across this little girl on the China waiting children page. I think she is really pretty and really cool! You have to be 30 to adopt from China so that takes us out of the picture. I hope someone adopts her. I just had to post this b/c I know a lot of people read our blog. Maybe one of you are meant to adopt her!

5 comments:

Tanya said...

Thank you for this reminder!! Our wait is NOTHING compared to those children who have been waiting years and years....and continue to hope and pray for a forever family. I will join you in prayer as we remember these waiting child and pray God places them in a loving and caring family.

Jen said...

love your post. No date! Today was a sad day for me. I feel like I am letting summer slip away because I want to get her home...and I am starting to feel like she won't be home anytime soon. Really happy for all the families that pass court but she has been waiting for sooooo long. When is it her/our time?

JonesEthiopia said...

We had planned for over a year to adopt a waiting child this time around... After discussing with our agency, C.M., and S.W., it was ultimately decided that it was not a good fit for our family at this time.

However, I know that next time around will be different. So waiting children are always in my heart, too. I constantly look at the pictures on my agency's page as well.

Tracy said...

I'm so glad you posted this! I didn't even know that Gladney had a waiting children page!

Renee said...

Thank you for your thoughts. Henok waited 10 years and Mesti waited 13 years for a family. The older children from Ethiopia are SO EASY to parent because they have been brought up with great love, care, and structure.